Rome visit, June 2008 - 57 

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- By Serge Bielanko via   

1. You were in love once. That's why you got married, dummy. So you're probably still in love. Remember that. 

2. Money is more important than some things in a marriage and less important than others. You pick which ones. 

3. No one else is married to you. It's just him or her. That says A LOT. 

4. Romance is nice. Patience is nicer. 

5. Some marriages are perfect. Yours is not one of them. Deal with it. 

6. When questioning your marriage, you should be questioning a lot of other things first. 

7. No one cares more about your marriage more than you two. 

8. Living with the person you love can suck sometimes. Put your grown-up pants on. 

9. Long periods of confusion mean you're not saying enough. 

10. Remember that exact moment when you both just knew it was the real deal. Well, guess what? It's still happening.